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Isabel Maria Grover passed away peacefully on March 4 2026. Isabel was born September 2, 1937 in New York to the late Abino and Isabel Vasquez. She had 6 brothers and sisters. She sang in the All-City Chorus in New York City and performed at Carnegie Hall. She said it was an extraordinary experience. She moved to California and married her husband of 46 years, Richard Grover. They had 3 children Jeffrey, Patricia Leah and Douglas.
Isabel was a retired Account Manager. She was loved by her co-workers and they referred to her as “Grammar X.” She was a devoted Catholic, and faith was an important part of her life. She cherished her time with her husband and family. Isabel and Richard had a love for boating and also enjoyed spending time with their neighbors on their front porch.
Isabel is survived by her son Douglas Grover, her daughter Patti Durfee and her brother Henry Vazquez “Sonny.” She has 11 grandchildren and 5 Great grandchildren. They meant the world to her and were the love of her life.
Memorial Reception
Recorded Friday, April 3rd, 2026
1:00pm Pacific Time
Isabel’s family invites you to view the interactive online reception to celebrate her life and legacy.

Chavito was an inspiration for me. I had to keep on hoping for a new way of getting ahead in my life. I did go to college and I made it. I thanked her for our conversations we had together it gave me hope and I am very serious about my faith in the Lord and Hope and pray everyone took the time in their busy lives to call Aunt Chavo and ask for her advice. She was great, sympathetic and wise on what I heard from her. She left a lasting mark on my life. I hope and pray you think of her often to remember her in your prayers.
Thank you Jeffrey for posting our party pictures together. Always appreciated her honesty in life matters even though we didn’t know each other that well. Do know she will be missed, especially on Tuesdays with those special calls to her daughter. Rest in peace with those you loved.
Happy Times with Grandma.